Bride kidnapping

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Bride kidnapping, also known as marriage by abduction or marriage by capture, is practiced in some traditional cultures, in countries spanning Central Asia, the Caucasus region, parts of Africa, and among the Hmong in southeast Asia, the Tzeltal in Mexico, and the Romani in Europe. In most countries, bride kidnapping is considered a sex crime, rather than a valid form of marriage. Some versions of it may also be seen as falling along the continuum between forced marriage and arranged marriage. However, even when it is clearly against the law, judicial enforcement remains lax, particularly in Kyrgyzstan, Chechnya, and Georgia.

Bride kidnapping is distinguished from raptio in that the former refers to the abduction of one woman by one man (and his friends and relatives), and is still a widespread practice, whereas the latter refers to the large scale abduction of women by groups of men, possibly in a time of war. (see also war rape)

Some maintain that the modern cultures include a ritual or symbolic kidnapping of the bride by the groom, in the case of a couple that has already consented to marry, as part of the ritual and traditions surrounding a wedding, in a nod to the practice of bride kidnapping which may have figured in that culture's history. According to some sources, the honeymoon is a relic of marriage by capture, based on the practice of the husband going into hiding with his wife to avoid reprisals from her relatives, with the intention that the woman would be pregnant by the end of the month.^[1]

Contents 1 Background and rationale 2 Africa 2.1 Rwanda 2.2 Ethiopia 2.3 Kenya 3 Central Asia 3.1 Kyrgyzstan 3.2 Kazakhastan 3.3 Uzbekistan 4 The Caucasus 4.1 Georgia 4.2 Azerbaijan 4.3 Dagestan, Chechnya and Ingushetia 5 South-east Asia 5.1 Hmong culture 6 The Americas 6.1 Tzeltal community, Mexico 7 Europe 7.1 Roma (Gypsy) communities 8 Catholic law 9 In history 9.1 Mediterranean 9.2 Italy 9.3 China 9.4 Slavic tribes 9.5 Turkana of East Africa 10 In film 10.1 Features 10.2 Documentaries 11 In television 12 See also 13 Bibliography 14 References 15 External links

[edit] Background and rationale

See also: Raptio

Though the motivations behind bride kidnapping vary by region, the cultures with traditions of marriage by abduction are generally patriarchal with a strong social stigma on sex or pregnancy outside of marriage and illegitimate births.^[2] In some cases, the couple collude together to elope under the guise of a bride kidnapping, presenting their parents with a fait accompli. In most cases, however, the men who resort to capturing a wife are often of lower social status, because of poverty, disease, poor character or criminality.^[3] They are sometimes deterred from legitimately seeking a wife because of the payment the woman's family expects, the bride price (not to be confused with a dowry, paid by the woman's family).^[4]

In agricultural and patriarchal societies, where bride kidnapping is most common, children work for their family. A woman leaves her birth family, geographically and economically, when she marries, becoming instead a member of the groom's family. (See patrilocality for an anthropological explanation.) Due to this loss of labor, the women's families do not want their daughters to marry young, and demand economic compensation (the aforementioned bride price) when they do leave them. This conflicts with the interests of men, who want to marry early, as marriage means an increase in social status, and the interests of the groom's family, who will gain another pair of hands for the family farm or business. Paradoxically, being "kidnapped" might also be in the interests of the woman in such societies, as her role in the society would preclude her from choosing a husband for herself, at the risk of being disowned or even killed (see honor killing). It may also be the only socially acceptable way for her to become a mother, a desirable and highly prized status for many women. Depending on the legal system under which she lives, the consent of the woman may not be a factor in judging the validity of the marriage.

The mechanism of marriage by abduction varies by location. This article surveys the phenomenon by region, drawing on common cultural factors for patterns, but noting country-level distinctions.

[edit] Africa

In several African countries, bride kidnapping still exists, and often takes the form of abduction followed by rape.

[edit] Rwanda

Bride-kidnapping is prevalent in areas of Rwanda.^[5] Often the abductor kidnaps the woman and rapes her. The family of the woman either then feels obliged to consent to the union,^[6] or is forced to when the kidnapper impregnates her, as no one else would marry a pregnant woman.

[edit] Ethiopia

In parts of Ethiopia, a man working in co-ordination with his friends may kidnap a girl or woman. The abductor will then hide his intended bride and rape her until she becomes pregnant. Subsequently, the kidnapper may try to negotiate a bride price with the village elders to legitimize the marriage.^[7] Girls as young as eleven years old are reported to have been kidnapped for the purpose of marriage.^[8] The bride of the forced marriage may suffer from both the physical consequences of early sexual activity and pregnancy, and the early end to her education.^[9] Though Ethiopia criminalized such abductions and raised the marriageable age to 18 in 2004, this law has not been well implemented.^[10]

[edit] Kenya

Forced marriages continue to be a problem for young girls in Kenya. The United States Department of State reports that children and young teenaged girls (aged ten and up) are sometimes married to men two decades or more their seniors.^[11]

Marriage by abduction used to be, and to some extent still is, a customary practice for the Kisii ethnic group. In their practice, the abductor kidnaps the woman forcibly and rapes her in an attempt to impregnate her. The "bride" is then coerced through the stigma of pregnancy and rape to marry her abductor. Though most common in the late 19th century through the 1960s, such marriage abductions still occur occasionally.^[12]

[edit] Central Asia

In Central Asia, bride kidnapping exists in Kyrgyzstan,^[13] Kazakhstan,^[14] Turkmenistan,^[15] and Karakalpakstan, an autonomous region of Uzbekistan.^[16]

[edit] Kyrgyzstan

Despite its illegality,^[17] in many, primarily rural, areas bride kidnapping, known as ala kachuu (to take and flee), is an accepted and common way of taking a wife.^[18] Studies by researcher Russell Kleinbach have found that approximately half of all Kyrgyz marriages include bride kidnapping; of those kidnappings, two thirds are non-consensual.^[19] The section below explores both the consensual and non-consensual models and briefly examines the history and legality of the tradition in Kyrgyzstan.

In one model of bride kidnapping present in Kyrgyzstan, the young man decides he wishes to marry and asks his parents to pick him out a suitable bride, or is told by his parents that it is time he settled down and that they have found someone of the right background and attributes. (In this sense, it may be similar to an arranged marriage, although the arranging is all on one side.) The prospective groom and his male relatives or friends or both abduct the girl (in the old nomadic days, on horseback; now often by car) and take her to the family home. Once there, the man's relatives may attempt to convince the woman to accept the marriage, and to place a white wedding scarf (jooluk) on her head to symbolize her agreement.^[20] They may do this by pointing out the advantages of the union, such as the wealth of their smallholding, to show her what she would gain by joining their family. Families may use force or threaten to curse the woman if she leaves, an effective threat in a superstitious country.^[21] Some families will keep the girl hostage for several days to break her will. Others will let her go if she remains defiant; she may, for example, refuse to sit down or to eat, as a sign that she is refusing the proffered hospitality. During this period, the groom typically does not see the bride until she has agreed to marry or at least has agreed to stay. The kidnapped woman's family may also become involved, either urging the woman to stay (particularly if the marriage is believed socially acceptable or advantageous for the prospective bride and her family), or opposing the marriage on various grounds and helping to liberate the woman.^[22]

In other models of bride kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan and other areas of Central Asia, the woman may be a complete stranger to the man prior to the abduction.^[23] Sometimes the groom and his family, rather than selecting a particular young woman to kidnap, decide on a household; that way they can still kidnap one of the sisters if the woman they desire is not home ^[24]. As in other societies, often the men who resort to bride kidnapping are socially undesirable for a variety of reasons; they may be more likely to be violent, have a criminal history, or to be substance abusers.^[25]

While sometimes less violent than kidnapping practiced elsewhere, the essence of the process, even in the first model above, is still the same and in some cases does result in sexual violence, including rape. Even when sex does not take place, once a woman has been kept overnight, even for a single night, her virginity is put in doubt. With her honor disgraced, she will have very few other options for marriage. Thus, after one night of capture, the woman is culturally compelled to marry the man.^[26] Such immense social stigma is attached to a refusal to marry after a kidnap that the kidnapped woman usually feels that she has no choice but to agree, and some of those who refuse even commit suicide after the kidnapping ^[27].

The matter is somewhat confused by the local use of the term "bride kidnap" to reflect practices along a continuum, from forcible abduction and rape (and then, almost unavoidably, marriage), to something akin to an elopement arranged between the two young people, to which both sets of parents have to consent after the fact.

Although the practice is illegal in Kyrgyzstan, bride kidnappers are rarely prosecuted, in part because many villages are de facto ruled by councils of elders and aksakal courts following customary law, away from the eyes of the state legal system.^[28]

The history of bride kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan is under dispute. Russian and later USSR colonizing powers made the ancient practice of the nomads illegal, and so with the fall of the Soviet Union and the subsequent liberation of the Central Asian nations, many have harked back to old customs as a way of asserting cultural identity.^[29] Rejecting a kidnapping is often culturally unacceptable for women, and perceived as a rejection of the Kyrgyz cultural identity.^[30] The practice is also associated with asserting masculinity.^[31] Recent studies challenge the claims that bride kidnapping used to be prevalent. According to Kyrgyz historians, and Fullbright scholar Russell Kleinbach, whereas kidnappings were rare until Soviet times, the bride kidnapping tradition has dramatically increased in the 20th century.^[32] The rise in bride kidnappings may be connected with difficulty in paying the required bride price (kalym).^[33]

According to the United States Embassy, two American women were bride-kidnapped in rural Kyrgyzstan in 2007.^[34]

[edit] Kazakhastan

In Kazakhstan, bride kidnapping (alyp qashu) is divided into non-consensual and consensual abductions, kelisimsiz alyp qashu ("to take and run without agreement") and kelissimmen alyp qashu ("to take and run with agreement"), respectively.^[35] Though some kidnappers are motivated by the wish to avoid a bride price or the expense of hosting wedding celebrations or a feast to celebrate the girl leaving home, other would-be husbands fear the woman's refusal, or that the woman will be kidnapped by another suitor first.^[36] Generally, in nonconsensual kidnappings, the abductor uses either deception (such as offering a ride home) or force (such as grabbing the woman, or using a sack to restrain her) to coerce the woman to come with him.^[37] Once at the man's house, one of his female relatives offers the woman a kerchief (oromal) that signals the bride's consent to the marriage. Though in consensual kidnappings, the woman may agree with little hesitation to wear the kerchief, in non-consensual abductions, the woman may resist the kerchief for days.^[38] Next, the abductor's family generally asks the "bride" to write a letter to her family, explaining that she had been taken of her own free will. As with the kerchief, the woman may resist this step adamantly.^[39] Subsequently, the "groom" and his family generally issues an official apology to the bride's family, including a letter and a delegation from the groom's household. At this time, the groom's family may present a small sum to replace the bride-price. Though some apology delegations are met cordially, others are greeted with anger and violence.^[40] Following the apology delegation, the bride's family may send a delegation of "pursuers" (qughysnshy) either to retrieve the bride or to verify her condition and honor the marriage.^[41]

[edit] Uzbekistan

In Karakalpakstan, an autonomous region in Uzbekistan, nearly one fifth of all marriages are conducted by bride kidnapping.^[42] Activist groups in the region tie an increase in kidnappings to economic instability. Whereas weddings can be prohibitively expensive, kidnappings avoid both the cost of the ceremony and any bride price.^[43]

[edit] The Caucasus

Bride kidnapping is an increasing trend in the countries and regions of the Caucasus, both in Georgia, Armenia^[44] and Azerbaijan in the South^[45] and in Dagestan, Chechnya and Ingushetia in the North.^[46] The traditions in the Caucasus, though appearing in distinct cultures, may have emerged during Ottoman rule.^[47] In the Caucasian versions of bride-kidnapping, the kidnap victim's family may play a role in attempting to convince the woman to stay with her abductor after the kidnapping, because of the shame inherent in the presumed consummation of the "marriage."^[48]

[edit] Georgia

In Georgia, activists estimate that hundreds of women are kidnapped and forced to marry each year.^[49] In a typical Georgian model of bride kidnapping, the abductor, often accompanied by friends, will accost the woman, and coerce her through deception or force to enter a car. Once in the car, the victim is taken to a remote area or the man's home.^[50] These kidnappings sometimes include rape, and generally result in strong stigma to the female victim.^[51] Women who have been victims of bride kidnapping are often regarded with shame; the victim's relatives may view it as a disgrace if the woman returns home after a kidnapping.^[52] Human Rights Watch reports that prosecutors often refuse to bring charges against the kidnappers, urging the kidnap victim to reconcile with her aggressor.^[53] This failure to investigate and prosecute abductions is consistent with a systematic reluctance of the police in Georgia to enforce laws against domestic and sexual violence against women.^[54]

[edit] Azerbaijan

In Azerbaijan, both marriage by capture (kiz kachirdmak) and elopement (goshulop gachmak) are relatively common practices.^[55] In the Azeri kidnap custom, a young woman is taken to the home of the abductor's parents through either deceit or force. There, she may be raped. Regardless of whether a rape occurs or not, the woman is generally regarded as impure by her relatives, and is therefore forced to marry her abductor.^[56] Despite a 2005 Azeri law that criminalized bride kidnapping, the practice places women in extremely vulnerable social circumstances, in a country where spousal abuse is rampant and recourse to law enforcement for domestic matters is impossible.^[57] In Azerbaijan, women abducted by bride kidnapping sometimes become slaves of the family who kidnap them.^[58]

[edit] Dagestan, Chechnya and Ingushetia

The Dagestan, Chechnya and Ingushetia regions in the Northern Caucasus (in Russia) have also witnessed an increase in bride kidnappings since the fall of the Soviet Union.^[59] As in other countries, kidnappers sometimes seize acquaintances to be brides and other times take strangers.^[60] Under Russian law, a kidnapper will not be prosecuted if he releases the victim or marries her with her consent. Chechnya and Ingushetia, other North Caucasian neighbors of Dagestan and Georgia, also have bride kidnapping in their cultures.^[61] As in the other regions, authorities often fail to respond to the kidnappings.^[62] In Chechnya, the police failure to respond to bridal kidnappings is compounded by a prevalence of abductions in the region.^[63] Several such kidnappings have been captured on video.^[64]

[edit] South-east Asia

[edit] Hmong culture

Marriage by abduction also occurs in traditional Hmong culture, in which it is known as zij poj niam.^[65] As in other cultures, bride kidnapping is generally a joint effort between the would-be groom and his friends and family. Generally, the abductor takes the woman while she is alone. The abductor then sends a message to the kidnap victim's family, informing them of the abduction and the abductor's intent to marry their daughter.^[66] If the victim's family manage to find the woman and insist on her return, they might be able to free her from the obligation to marry the man. However, if they fail to find the woman, the kidnap victim is forced to marry the man. The abductor still has to pay a bride price for the woman, generally an increased amount because of the kidnapping. Because of this increased cost (and the general unpleasantness of abduction), kidnapping is usually only a practice reserved for a man with an otherwise blemished chance of securing a bride, because of criminal background, illness or poverty.^[67]

Occasionally, members of the Hmong ethnic group have engaged in bride kidnapping in the United States.^[68] In some cases, the defendant has been allowed to plead a cultural defense to justify his abduction.^[69] This defense has sometimes been successful. In 1985, Kong Moua, a Hmong man, kidnapped and raped a woman from a Californian college. He later claimed that this was an act of zij poj niam and was allowed to plead to false imprisonment only, instead of kidnapping and rape. The judge in this case considered cultural testimony as an explanation of the man's crime.^[70]

[edit] The Americas

[edit] Tzeltal community, Mexico

Among the Tzeltal community, a Mayan tribe in Chiapas, Mexico, bride kidnapping has been a recurring method of securing a wife.^[71] The Tzeltal people are an indigenous, agricultural tribe that is organized patriarchally. Premarital contact between the sexes is discouraged; unmarried women are supposed to avoid speaking with men outside of their families.^[72] As with other societies, the grooms that engage in bride kidnapping have generally been the less socially desirable mates.^[73]

In the Tzeltal tradition, a girl is kidnapped by the groom, possibly in concert with his friends. She is generally taken to the mountains and raped. The abductor and his future bride often then stay with a relative until the bride's father's anger has reportedly subsided. At that point, the abductor will return to the bride's house to negotiate a bride-price, bringing with him the bride and traditional gifts such as rum.^[74]

[edit] Europe

[edit] Roma (Gypsy) communities

Bride kidnapping is a traditional Romani practice. In the Romani culture, girls as young as twelve years old may be kidnapped for marriage to teenaged boys.^[75] As the Roma population lives throughout Europe, this practice has been seen on multiple occasions in Ireland, England, the Czech Republic, the Netherlands, Bulgaria and Slovakia.^[76] The kidnapping has been theorized as a way to avoid a bride price.^[77] The tradition's normalization of kidnapping puts young women at higher risk of becoming victims of human trafficking.^[78]

[edit] Catholic law

In Catholic canon law, the impediment of raptus specifically prohibits marriage between a woman abducted with the intent to force her to marry, and her abductor, as long as the woman remains in the abductor's power.^[79] According to the second provision of the law, should the woman decide to accept the abductor as a husband after she is safe, she will be allowed to marry him.^[80] The canon defines raptus as a "violent" abduction, accompanied by physical violence or threats, or fraud or deceit. The Council of Trent insisted that the abduction in raptus must be for the purpose of marriage to count as an impediment to marriage.^[81]

[edit] In history

[edit] Mediterranean

Marriage by capture was practiced in ancient cultures throughout the Mediterranean area. It is represented in mythology and history by the tribe of Benjamin in the Bible^[82]; by the Greek hero Paris stealing the beautiful Helen of Troy from her husband Menelaus, thus triggering the Trojan War;^[83] and by The Rape of the Sabine Women by Romulus, the founder of Rome^[84] (parodied by English short-story writer Saki in The Schartz-Metterklume Method).^[85]

In 326 A.D., the Emperor Constantine issued an edict prohibiting marriage by abduction. The law made kidnapping a public offense; even the kidnapped bride could be punished if she later consented to a marriage with her abductor.^[86] According to historian Judith Evans-Grubbs, spurned suitors sometimes kidnapped their intended brides as a method of restoring honor. The suitor, in coordination with his friends, generally abducted his bride while she was out of her house in the course of her daily chores. The bride would then be secreted outside the town or village. Though the kidnapped woman was sometimes raped in the course of the abduction, the stain on her honor from a presumptive consummation of the marriage was sufficient to damage her marital prospects irreversibly.^[87] Sometimes, the "abduction" masked an elopement.^[88]

[edit] Italy

The custom of fuitina was widespread in Sicily and southern Italy. In theory and in some cases it was an agreed elopment between two youngsters; in practice it was often a forcible kidnapping and rape, followed by a so-called "rehabilitating marriage" (matrimonio riparatore). In 1965 this custom was brought to national attention by the case of Franca Viola, a 17-year-old abducted and raped by a local small-time criminal, with the assistance of a dozen of his friends. When she was returned to her family after a week, she refused to marry her abductor, contrary to local expectation. Her family courageously backed her up, and suffered severe intimidation for their efforts; the kidnappers were arrested and the main perpetrator was sentenced to 11 years in prison.

The exposure of this "archaic and intransigent system of values and behavioural mores"^[89] caused great national debate. When Viola married the man of her choice in 1968, Giuseppe Saragat, then president of Italy, sent a present as a gesture of solidarity, and soon afterwards Pope Paul VI granted the couple a private audience. A 1970 film, La moglie più bella (The Most Beautiful Wife) by Damiano Damiani and starring Ornella Muti, is based on the case. Viola never capitalised on her fame and status as a feminist icon, preferring to live a quiet life in Alcamo with her family.^[90]

[edit] China

Until the 1940s, marriage by abduction, known as qiangqin, occurred in regions of China.^[91] According to one scholar, marriage by abduction was sometimes a groom's answer to avoid paying a bride price.^[92] In other cases, the scholar argues, it was a collusive act between the bride's parents and the groom to circumvent the bride's consent.^[93] Ethnographer Anne McLaren found that quiangpin, though illegal in imperial China, was common in rural areas, and often became a local "institution" that could be carefully planned and undertaken in a public context.^[94]

According to McLaren, in one form of a typical qiangqin, the abductor would arrive at a woman's house flanked by around twenty men. While the friends carried the woman away, the "groom" would use scissors to try to cut off the woman's pants. The woman, struggling with ensuring her dignity, would be unable to adequately fight off her abductors. The victim would then be taken to the groom's house, where the marriage would be consummated.^[95]

Chinese scholars theorize that this practice of marriage by abduction became the inspiration for a form of institutionalized public expression for women: the bridal lament.^[96] In imperial China, a new bride performed a two to three day public song, including chanting and sobbing, that listed the her woes and complaints. The bridal lament would be witnessed by members of her family and the local community.^[97]

[edit] Slavic tribes

Bride kidnapping was witnessed in East Slavic tribes, predecessor tribes to the Russian state, in the eleventh century, where various of its traditions were documented by Russian monk Nestor. According to his Chronicles, the Drevlian tribe captured wives non-consensually, whereas the Radimich, Viatich, and Severian tribes "captured" their wives after having come to an agreement about marriage with them.^[98] The clergy's increase in influence may have helped the custom to abate.^[99]

Marriage by capture occurred among the South Slavs until the beginning of the 1800s. Common in Serbia, the custom was known in as otmitza. Bride kidnapping also happened in the Balkan states of Montenegro, Croatia and Bosnia-Herzegovina.^[100] The practice was mentioned in a 1605 Croatian law.^[101]

[edit] Turkana of East Africa

The Turkana tribe in Kenya also practiced marriage by abduction. In this culture, bridal kidnapping (akomari) occurred before any formal attempts to arrange a marriage with a bride's family. According to one scholar, a successful bridal kidnapping raised the abductor's reputation in his community, and allowed him to negotiate a lower bride price with his wife's family. Should an attempted abductor fail to seize his bride, he was bound to pay a bride price to the woman's family, provide additional gifts and payments to the family, and to have an arranged marriage (akota).^[102]

[edit] In film

[edit] Features

Bride capture has been reflected in feature films from many cultures, sometimes humourously, sometimes as social commentary.

Bride kidnapping is depicted as a frontier solution in the 1954 Hollywood musical Seven Brides for Seven Brothers. Qiangpin is the title and theme of the all-female Shaoxing opera comedy known in English as The Bride Hunter (1960). Bride kidnapping is displayed somewhat humorously in Pedro Almodovar's 1990 Spanish hit ¡Átame! (Tie Me Up! Tie Me Down!), starring Antonio Banderas and Victoria Abril. It is the underlying theme behind the 2005 Korean movie The Bow.

A 1970 Italian film, La moglie più bella (The Most Beautiful Wife) by Damiano Damiani and starring Ornella Muti, is based on the story of Franca Viola, described above. Before the national debate caused by the Viola case, a 1964 satire directed by Pietro Germi, Seduced and Abandoned (Sedotta e abbandonata), treated the Sicilian custom as a dark comedy.

Some Russian films and literature depict bride kidnapping in the Caucasus. In The Girl Prisoner of the Caucasus, a bride kidnapping occurs in an unidentified Caucasian country.^[103] There is a Soviet comedy entitled Kidnapping, Caucasian Style (Russian: Кавказская пленница, или Новые приключения Шурика).

In the 2006 comedy Borat: Cultural Learnings of America for Make Benefit Glorious Nation of Kazakhstan, the eponymous fictional reporter Borat, played by British comedian/satirist Sacha Baron Cohen, attempts to kidnap American actress Pamela Anderson in order to take her as his wife.^[104] He brings a "wedding sack" which he has made for the occasion, suggesting that such kidnappings are a tradition in his parody of Kazakhstan.^[105]

[edit] Documentaries

In 2005, a documentary film entitled Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan made by Petr Lom was presented at the UNAFF 2005 festival,^[106] and subsequently on PBS and Investigation Discovery (ID) in the United States.^[107] The film met controversy in Kyrgyzstan because of ethical concerns about the filming of real kidnappings.^[108]

[edit] In television

In the BBC radio and television comedy series The League of Gentlemen, the character Papa Lazarou comes to the fictional town of Royston Vasey under the guise of a peg-seller to kidnap women by entering their homes, talking gibberish to them (Gippog) and persuading them to hand over their wedding rings. He 'names' them all 'Dave', and, after obtaining their rings, proclaims; "you're my wife now".

[edit] See also

• Bride price
• Stockholm syndrome, when a captive grows to identify with their captor
• History of rape
• Honor killing
• Shotgun wedding
• Shivaree

[edit] Bibliography

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• Bates, Daniel G. “Normative and Alternative Systems of Marriage among the Yörük of Southeastern Turkey.” Anthropological Quarterly, 47:3 (Jul., 1974), pp. 270-287.

• Evans-Grubbs, Judith. "Abduction Marriage in Antiquity: A Law of Constantine (CTh IX. 24. I) and Its Social Context" The Journal of Roman Studies, Vol. 79, 1989, pp. 59-83.

• Handrahan, Lori. 2004. “Hunting for Women: Bride-Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan.” International Feminist Journal of Politics, 6:2 (June), 207–233.

• Herzfeld, Michael “Gender Pragmatics: Agency, Speech, and Bride Theft in a Cretan Mountain Village.” Anthropology 1985, Vol. IX: 25-44.

• Kleinbach, Russ and Salimjanova, Lilly (2007). "Kyz ala kachuu and adat: non-consensual bride kidnapping and tradition in Kyrgyzstan", Central Asian Survey, 26:2, 217 — 233.

• Kleinbach, Russell. “Frequency of non-consensual bride kidnapping in the Kyrgyz Republic.” International Journal of Central Asian Studies. Vol 8, No 1, 2003, pp. 108–128.

• Light, Nathan and Damira Imanalieva. “Performing Ala Kachuu: Marriage Strategies in the Kyrgyz Republic”.

• McLaren, Anne E., "Marriage by Abduction in Twentieth Century China", Modern Asian Studies 35(4) (Oct. 2001), pp. 953-984.

• ——, Mehrigiul Ablezova and Medina Aitieva. “Kidnapping for marriage (ala kachuu) in a Kyrgyz village.” Central Asian Survey. (June 2005) 24(2), 191–202.

• Pusurmankulova, Burulai. "Bride Kidnapping. Benign Custom Or Savage Tradition?" [5] under the auspices of Freedom House

• Stross, Brian. “Tzeltal Marriage by Capture.” Anthropological Quarterly. 47:3 (July 1974), pp. 328-346.

• Werner, Cynthia, “Women, marriage, and the nation-state: the rise of nonconsensual bride kidnapping in post-Soviet Kazakhstan,” in The Transformation of Central Asia. Pauline Jones Luong, ed. Ithaca, NY: Cornell University Press, 2004, pp. 59–89.

[edit] References

[edit] External links

• The Kidnapped Bride: A documentary by Petr Lom
• Dedicated to Understanding Ala Kachuu (bride-kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan) and Preventing Non-Consensual Marriage
• Spotlight on: Violence Against Girls in Ethiopia -- Marriage by Abduction and Rape
• Rights-Rwanda: Marriage by Abduction Worries Women's Groups